The Love Expert: We've Built A Loveless Society & It's Making Us Depressed! (here's the fix!) Alain De Botton

These are very valuable lessons that we need in our relationships. So lesson one. Allah the bottom. The modern philosopher of love his goal to help you live. a better, more meaningful life. The average human has 70,000 thoughts a day. The problem is that we don't know how to use them. For example, we tend to believe we'll find the one. But that belief has led to more rage, more disappointment, because we're not free to love just anyone. What's problematic is that we're drawn to love stories that are echoing our childhoods. And this is something that troubles so many people, because our past was not necessarily happy. We are all confused about love. The the most romantic sentence that people will say is I met this person and we didn't even need to speak. We just felt on the same page. Well, this leads to a catastrophic outbreak of sulking. They say to you Is anything wrong? Of course there is, but you're not gonna tell them.

And the reason is that you're a romantic and you believe that your partner should have alien capacities to look into your wounded soul to understand what the upset is. But of course they can't because they're just human. So what would you say are the core habits of two people who have a really successful relationship? What we need is Let's talk about sex. Goodness me does it cause problems. Twenty-six percent of people in relationships are having sex less than 10 times per year. So the question is, what are we getting wrong? One of the leading answers that neither party knows is there is that Ding ding, that's normally a sign of a problem. Uh You write about

So much. You produce content about so many different subject matters. But what is the overarching mission that you Uh on. I'm trying to look

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