The Gottman Doctors: "Women Tend to Be More Unhappily Married", 96% Of Non-Cuddlers Have An Awful Sex Life & Why One Night Stands Are Dangerous!

Women tend to be more unhappily married than men. And 80% of the time women bring up problems in a relationship. But 69% of all problems are not solvable. So if you rely on problems getting solved as an indicator of the success of the relationship, it's not gonna look good. Dr. John and Dr. Julie Gottman. World-renowned researchers and clinical psychologists who've been married 36 years and have spent the last 50 years studying alone. You made something called the Love Lab. What is that? We followed three thousand couples. It taught us the difference between what masters of relationship do and what disasters do. What advice would you give to me then?

Cuddle. 96% of non-cutdlers had an awful sex life. Anything else? Yes. The hookup culture is thriving. Is that a problem? Yes. Why? Okay, so let me point out something that everybody needs to hear. So And also kissing is very powerful. Men who kiss their wives goodbye when they leave for work live four years longer than men who don't. In your research you found that during conflict couples who show four key behaviors mean that an argument is boomed. Yes. And they are criticism. Defensiveness. The third one was the worst. And that was That was the best predictor of relationship breakup. And the fourth was

Done. Julie, can you roleplay the behavior that a couple who are destined to fail would exhibit? Oh yes. So Sure.

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