Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)

Arguments are not something to win. The person in front of you isn't fighting you. They are fighting to feel understood by you. How do we communicate with someone who doesn't want to communicate with us? People who will use silence as a punishment.

That to me is the number one sign of low emotional intelligence. Hey everyone, welcome back to On Purpose, the place you come to become happier, healthier, and more healed. Today's guest is someone that I've been looking forward to having in the seat. Ever since I came across his content on social media, I knew I had to have a conversation with him. Today's guest is Jefferson Fisher, a trial lawyer turned communication expert whose simple, practical tools have helped millions handle conflict.

with more calm and clarity. Jefferson is known for breaking down the exact words to use in real life moments when emotions run high. His book, The Next Conversation, Argue Less, Talk More, is already changing the way people navigate arguments, boundaries, and difficult conversations. I'm excited to welcome to on purpose, Jefferson Fisher. Jefferson, it's great to have you here.

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