The Gaslighting & Conversation Expert: This Is A Sign You’ll Divorce in 10 Years!

What are the five most important things for anyone who's striving to be a masterful communicator to get what they want out of life? The first is authenticity. And presence is the highest form of authenticity. Okay, on that point, I'm gonna play this video on the screen that went viral of Marley Cyrus and Amy Campbell. Oh, I haven't seen that. That's painful to watch. Number two. Reduce the amount of distraction. Three Stop over Explain. Number four, know how to deal with their sadness. And I'll go through all of these in detail. But number five is you have to know how to handle the narcissist and the gaslighter.

What do I do? Let me show you. First, you need to. Yeah, for a lot of people that kinda blows their mind. Jefferson Fisher is back, and the board certified trial lawyer is using his expertise in conflict resolution and communication to teach couples, friends, employees, and everyone in between how to master difficult conversations. Here's the truth, you have to invest in your communication. If I don't say what needs to be said at work, I'll lose that promotion. Same thing in relationships. Most relationships don't fall apart because they fell out of love. They fell out of communication.

because of a hundred moments where repair could have happened and it didn't. Because you said, ah, this is so stupid. This is so small. Like there's a recent study showing that the biggest predictor of the child's well being within the parental relationship is not whether they were married or divorced. It was how they deal with conflict. But people are definitely afraid of the conflict that they're in because they don't know what to say. And so I want to help them feel controlled enough, feel confident in this. And it's knowing things like being right is overrated. If I respond first with frustration, I'm gonna lose every time. Or if you want to know how to handle the insults, the patronizing, the dismissive. First thing you have to do That's the mistake I've made multiple times.

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