Dating Expert Sabrina Zohar: You’re Not Confused, You’re Ignoring the Signs (THIS Mindset Shift Will End the “What If” Loop for Good)

I think the challenge today is, or at least what I feel people struggling with is almost like the old challenge of sitting there with a flower and going, they love me, they love me not, they love me, they love me not. And I don't know when that was invented. But I feel like we're ruminating, we're overthinking, we're procrastinating. How do you know if someone's actually into you? It's so funny.

Thank you for reminding me about the flower. Because as you said, I was like, oh, my childhood. I think what we're really looking for, for me, I'm a big on effort equals interest. And I think we're getting in a time where that effort is starting to get muddied, right? We're looking at it as are they texting me every day?

Are they contacting me? And we're looking at these dopamine hits as opposed to actually connecting with people. And so I think for me, are you feeling safe, seen, and secure with this person? Now, that might not happen after one date, but Is this somebody that is reciprocal?

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