The Orgasm Expert: Women Don’t Like Penetrative Sex As Much As Men! This Is How Often You Should Be Having Sex! Stop Inviting Pets Into The Bedroom! - Doctor Karen Gurney

Everyone wants more sex, better sex, and there is huge amount that we can do that can guarantee great sex for the rest of your life. So that the best place to start is Doctor Karen Gurney. She is a clinical psychologist and psychosexologist that has been helping individuals and couples overcome sexual problems. For twenty years. She's the lead psychologist in an award winning NHS sex clinic. This might be surprising to some people. Fifty-two percent of women and forty-two percent of men are unhappy with the sex lives that they have, and that's because as a society we've got sex all wrong. For example, The way desire is represented to us is lust, passion, spontaneity, but it's not the norm. And the problem is a lot of people are waiting to feel like that. and they're waiting a really long time. What we need to do instead is be aware that our desire can be triggered using what I call sexual currency. I'll go into that. We also know that penis and vagina sex is women's least favourite sexual act.

But that's how we see how sex should be. So we see less pleasure and less reward for women. But also, if you ask most people how often they should be having sex, everyone says three times a week. It's actually drastically different than that. Three times a month. And that shows the way we understand sex is all wrong. So I have questions. You think you should schedule sex? No. What you should do though is Fantasies, fetishes. What if your partner says I don't like it? Well, I can talk through that if you like. Parents who are struggling with sex, what should they do? We know that people start having sex again from when their kid is about six, and that's because What if you're in a relationship right now and you no longer found them attractive, what do I say? I would say Uh

Karen Ghani. Hi. What you do and why'd you do it? I spend my working week trying to change people's relationships with sex.

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