Former Spy: If You’re Easily Offended, You’re Easily Manipulated! Psychological Trick That Makes People Respect You! This 1 Trick Catches A Lie In Seconds!

If I'm easily offended, I'm easily manipulated. So if you are that person where you are reactive, reactive, reactive. Rule number one. Shut the f up. Because if you're looking to be respected, you need to manage yourself. But there are times that people are gonna cross you and disrespect you. How do you deal with it? So there's a guidepost that's talk to the intelligence communities and it really, really helps when you're dealing with people. And so one of the ways you deal with that kind of behavior. Evy Paporis, the former secret service agent, turned human behavior expert. From protecting presidents to interrogating the world's most dangerous men. She now teaches people how to develop mental strength and persuasive communication skills. How did they train you as a secret service agent to have that strong mental foundation that you have? There's a lot of things. So first, one of the biggest things that holds people back is the idea that. I'm special. You're not that special. For example, I was one of the first responders at 911. I watched thousands of people die.

And one of the things that got me through it was understanding I wasn't alone in it. And when you learned that, you can get through anything. But when you tell yourself nobody knows what I'm going through, nobody can help you, because it's just you going through it. Now the next thing, what's most important is this tool that we don't pay attention to, our body. And there's this study where they started recording people walking. Then they've laid it to convicted felons and they said to them, Who would you pick as prey? They all pick the same people. There were So there are simple things you can do. Your hands, your voice, how you sit, and I will tell you everything. But also the other thing that's actually interesting, which you didn't ask, but I will volunteer this information are the strategies to tell if somebody's being truthful or not. And it's that's Lie Detection 101. I find it incredibly fascinating that when we look at the back end of Spotify and Apple and our audio channels, the majority of people that watch this podcast haven't yet hit the follow button. or the subscribe button, wherever you're listening to this. I would like to make a deal with you. If you could do me a huge favor and hit that subscribe button. I will work tirelessly from now until forever to make the show better and better and better and better. I can't tell you how much it helps when you hit that subscribe button. The show gets big, which means we can expand the production, bring in all the guests you want to see and continue to do in this thing we love.

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