*NEW* Body Language Expert: When You Do This You Look like A Loser...(Sorry But You Do)! This Is The Real Reason You're Still Single!

A lot of people do the sun dates and it drives me crazy. Look, watch this. Yes! Okay, so we had the very first date, and I pre-coached the gentleman, and I was coaching the girls via an earpiece, and I was shocked by these dates. Please don't do that. This is why we're having a baby crisis. Got angry after this date. Why?

Is that girl? We handed this guy to Shewan a silver platter. She was physically attracted to him and I asked her, would you like to go out with him again? And she said to me, Yeah, yeah. And now we are missing opportunities for connection. The thing that's going to make us healthy, happy, and live a long time. Vanessa Van Edwards has helped over 400,000 students crack the code on human behavior. Decoding universal body language and sharing science-backed secrets for better dates, smoother conversations, and bigger career wins. Vanessa Van Edwards, welcome back. The first place I want to start is can we change who we are? They've actually researched this, and every person on planet Earth has these five personality traits. And they fall on a spectrum, high, medium, or low. And they're somewhere between 42 to 57% heritable. For example, neuroticism, which is how you worry. And high neurotics, like me, produce less serotonin more slowly.

makes us feel calm. And so like I am having far more negative experiences than the same person in the room, and that's genetic. But there is 30 to 40% potential for change. If you want a better relationship, you want a raise, you want a promotion, you want more friends, the good news is anyone can learn these cues and techniques. Such as decoding the seven universal micro expressions we all do unconsciously. How to spot a lot. The number one mistake people make in a first impression, and how to become a master communicator. Let's start with I find it incredibly fascinating that when we look at the back end of Spotify and Apple and our audio channels, the majority of people that watch this podcast haven't yet hit the follow button. or the subscribe button, wherever you're listening to this. I would like to make a deal with you. If you could do me a huge favor and hit that subscribe button, I will work tirelessly from now until forever to make the show better and better and better and better. I can't tell you how much it helps when you hit that subscribe button. The show gets bigger, which means we can expand the production, bring in all the guests you want to see and continue to do in this thing we love.

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