The Love Expert: Why Women Are Addicted To F**k Boys & Why You Should "Have A 'Boring' Relationship Instead!" Logan Ury

Most people want to find love, but the truth is you think you know what you want, but you're wrong. But there's a lot of great relationship science out there, and this might be the number one thing that I want people to take away. So if you're Logan Your Hinge dating scientist from Harvard, she's renowned for her data driven approach to help millions of people find love. Big things in my work are The spark, the post-date eight, and the three dating tendencies. So let's go through that. The spark is this idea that we go after the initial chemistry, the fireworks, but the spark often leads to relationships that burn out. The spark, the post-date eight. There are eight questions to ask yourself after a date, training your brain to a new way of dating. And finally, most people suffer from one of these three dating tendencies, and that's what's holding them back from finding love. And can you change it? Yeah. So the first type is

People in great relationships have made a bunch of good choices, and the truth is the person that ends up making them happy in the long term is very rarely who they thought they should be with. If you are single and you don't wanna be, at some point you have to realize you are choosing a set of problems. Why do I keep calling Boys, where people often confuse pet peeves the ick for deal breakers. Like he has a Velcro wallet. I can buy you a new Wallet and they say to me, like, I don't want to meet on an app, it's not romantic, but the number one way that couples are meeting is online. And so because I want to help so many people find love, these are the top tricks for a great hinge profile. First of all, your Uh Logan.

Why does your work matter? My work matters because most people, almost everyone Wants to find love. And it's really hard. And I meet people and I see how badly they want it. I see how long they've been trying to get it and they're getting in their own way.

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