The Speaking Coach: The One Word All Liars Use! Stop Saying This Word, It's Making You Sound Weak! The More You Do This, The More You Sound Like A Liar!

When somebody is belittling you or being rude or being disrespectful, what we typically want to do is throw it right back, because now we gotta win. Instead of that, here's what I would want you to do. One, you're gonna have five to seven seconds of silence. Two. to say it again. Because all the time in arguments people take it back. And three, this is where it gets fun. I want you to say That's where your real power is because it shows that you're the one in control and they're the ones that are not. I'm Jefferson Fisher. I'm a board certified trial attorney and I help people resolve conflict, resolve problems. And I can change two words and change your life just by what you decide to say next. Because what you say truly has the power.

To change everything. For example, I teach that you never Want to win an argue. When you look to win an argument, you will often lose the relationship. That's your prize, congrats. So instead of seeing arguments as something to win, see them as something to unravel. And if you can just ask them the question, what am I missing? I promise you that is the most effective tool that you can use for a difficult conversation. What about when you're dealing with someone that you don't like? The secret to dealing with someone you don't like is to be. And then could you explain to me

This image here. So this is all about how to say no. And how does one learn that? Start with Then in with Really? That right there is very, very effective.

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