Moment 163: Happiness Expert Reveals The One Type Of Person You Should NEVER Date

Uh biggest mistake that people make in dating markets is they look for their their op they look for the their their doppelganger. They look for their clone. You shouldn't look for your clone, you should look for your compliment. Why? Because you'll be happier when you complete each other. That's when people who complete each other, you find that very happy marriages often happen between an introvert and an extro if they learn to appreciate each other. So it's not you know, hammer and tongs all the time for the differences. But when people, for example, one of the reasons that dating apps are so unsuccessful for giving people

you know, satisfactory dating experiences. People have more and more and more choice, but they're more likely to say they're not satisfied with the people they're dating and not attracted to the people that they're dating. It's because they'll set up a dating profile saying, I vote this way, I like this music, I live here, I like these things, I want somebody with these preferences, and they get somebody who's their sibling, which is as my adult children will remind me is not hot. Yeah. Difference is hot. It's so true because I never would have said I want someone that is Spiritual

um that is really involved in spirituality and believes In things that you just can't see. My girlfriend believes in all the chakras and these energies, and she'll read and she just believes in it all. And it's funny because I never would have said that's what I wanted. But I absolutely love it. And that means that actually she's actually pulled me into her world. She's made me more spiritual. She's made me believe in things I never would have believed before. Uh-huh. And she's completing me in that regard. It's really great.

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