On Purpose with Jay Shetty · 2025-11-05 · 39 min · 7,730 words

Jays Must Listens: You’re Approaching Dating Wrong! (Use THIS Blueprint to Attract the RIGHT Person) Ft. Vanessa Van Edwards & Jillian Turecki

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What if you've been approaching dating all wrong? Maybe you've put yourself out there but nothing clicks, or you're still waiting for the right person. Over half of singles today are open to love, yet more than 60% feel burned out by abs. The truth is, finding love isn't about perfection. It's about showing up authentically, reading the right signals, and attracting real connection.

In this episode, we're joined by body language specialist Vanessa Van Edwards, love expert Gillian Turecki, relationship coach Sadia Khan, and psychotherapist Lori Gottlieb, a masterclass on attraction, chemistry, and building relationships that last. Let's get into it. The number one health and wellness podcast, Jay Shetty. Jay Shetty. The one, the only Jay Shetty.

Social scientist Vanessa Van Edwards shifts our attention to the subtleties of connection, specifically the cues we give off in dating and attraction that often go unnoticed. She explains that we think we're obvious when we're interested, but research shows we're not. In fact, people recognize flirting only 28% of the time, and women often have to send multiple signals quickly just to be understood. Take a listen and stay tuned for the takeaway. Let's say you're at a workout class, let's say you're at a social space, maybe it is a rooftop bar, maybe it is a club.

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