The Body Language Expert: Stop Using This, It’s Making People Dislike You, So Are These Subtle Mistakes! Your Resting Face Matters & How To Fix It!

Your brain is 12.5 times more likely to believe my gesture over my words. And that's because it is very hard to lie with our gestures. For example, you want to do a experiment with me? Sure. Okay, I want you to say five, but hold up the number three. Five. Hard, right? Yeah. I have to think about them separately. This is why liars use less gestures, but known tool like that is critical if you're trying to set yourself up for success. And we're gonna go through all of them. Oh yeah. Vanessa Van Edwards is a behavioral investigator whose science-backed research from body language and microexpressions to vocal tones and first impressions has revolutionized the way we build confidence and create more authentic relationships in every social and professional interaction. I'm a recovering awkward person. I thought that charisma was genetic, and I didn't know how to have conversations. I didn't even know how to have friends. And then I discovered that Highly successful. Successful people speak a hidden language, and that is the language of Qs.

It's directly from the research. They know that blueprints can talk to anyone. They know that if you sit within 25 feet of a high performer, your own performance improves by 15%. And that there's a direct correlation between confidence and anxiety and the distance between our shoulder and our earlobes. Interesting. They also know that 82% of our impressions of people are based on warmth and competence. So if you worry that people don't take you seriously, you have trouble getting raises, you feel anxious and overwhelmed, I have five power cues for competence, but if you haven't ever been told you're intimidated, hard to talk to, I want you to use these five warmth cues first. What about how to get a partner in terms of cues and body language? Let's start with a study that blew my mind. It's impossible to be attracted to someone who That's so crazy. Just such a stupid. Quick one before we get back to this episode. Just give me thirty seconds of your time.

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