On Purpose with Jay Shetty · 2026-03-30 · 106 min · 22,143 words

Logan Ury: #1 Dating Mistake That Leads to the Wrong Relationship (Use THIS Compatibility Test Before You Get Attached)

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The veggest lie that we've been sold in love is this idea of the spark. We interpret it as chemistry when it's actually anxiety. Only 11% of people experience love at first sight. So you don't believe in the one? I don't believe in the one.

We become so obsessed with finding the perfect person instead of building the perfect relationship. Hey everyone, welcome back to On Purpose, the place you come to become happier, healthier, and more healed. This might be the most requested dating episode we've ever done. Because so many of you keep asking the same question.

Why do I keep chasing the wrong person? Why can't I find the right person? Today we're joined by best-selling author and Hinges director of relationship science, Logan Ure. Logan challenges one of dating's biggest myths. What does the spark really mean?

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