Moment 69 - People Pleasing Is Hurting You: Lewis Howes

Uh You talk you described the reasons why in your trauma that m that made you a people pleaser. And do you know what's really interesting is when you told me that you were a people pleaser Um I couldn't believe that. I'm like what you big tough athlete man, people pleaser, carrot you know what I mean? But it just it goes to show that

That sort of that trauma in us. Yeah. Um Is kind of agnostic to to to to our mask, or certain And I, when you told me that 'Cause we had a little bit of this conversation, just a hint of it in in when we met in Dubai.

I realise that I've been a people pleaser, but I never thought I was. In all of my relationships, I think The significant reason why they failed is exactly what you've described. I've gone in trying to compromise everything and and love. Just to keep the peace, keep the love. Just to just to keep them and try and keep them happy um with me. And in the short term, that day Fine.

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