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Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Meet Vanessa and Xander Marin, your new BFF couple friends! She’s a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and he’s a regular dude. Together they’re the shockingly open, slightly nerdy, and seriously funny couple you want to grab sushi…

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E285: Ask a Sex Therapist: Sore Jaws, Awkward Eye Contact & Aging Down There 2026-11-05 · 57m
E284: Your Wildest Kink & Fantasy Questions… Answered! 2026-10-29 · 61m
E283: Reverse Cowgirl: Tips, Tricks, and Techniques for Maximum Pleasure 2026-10-22 · 54m
E282: Is This Normal? He Made AI Sex Videos of Us, and I Have Questions 2026-10-15 · 54m
E281: Am I the Asshole? Kissing After Oral, Weight Gain, and Bad Sex 2026-10-08 · 60m
E280: The Initiation Mistakes You Don’t Even Realize You’re Making 2026-10-01 · 47m
E279: Ask a Sex Therapist: Kink Icks, Spicy Pics, and Vanilla Sex 2026-09-24 · 62m
E278: How to Get Out of a Relationship Rut: Your 4-Week Plan 2026-09-17 · 52m
E277: How to Take Your Orgasm to the Next Level with the Four Orgasm Amplifiers 2026-09-10 · 52m
E276: How Do You Turn Your Partner On? (When You've Been Together For Years) 2026-09-03 · 50m
E275: Reasonable or Ridiculous? Sex Quotas, Oral Every Time, and Dirty Talk Dealbreakers 2026-08-27 · 50m
E274: Is it Normal to Not Orgasm During Sex? We Got Attacked for Talking About This 2026-08-20 · 66m
E273: How to Try New Sex Positions Without Killing the Mood 2026-08-13 · 60m
E272: What Do Men Really Think About….? (Part 5) Rough Sex, Vibrators, and What Turns Them Off 2026-08-06 · 57m
E271: The Real Reason You Can't "Let Go" in Bed 2026-07-30 · 51m
E270: The 5 Silent Relationship Killers That Turn Partners Into Roommates 2026-07-23 · 57m
E269: Tie-Breakers: We Referee Your Realest Relationship Standoffs 2026-07-16 · 61m
E268: Ask Us Anything: Only Fans, The Ick, & Creeps In The Comments 2026-07-09 · 67m
E267: The Hygiene Episode 2026-07-02 · 55m
E266: Ask a Sex Therapist (Part 3) Sex Pillows, Squirting, and Standing-Up Sex 2026-06-25 · 61m
E265: Is This Cheating? (Part 3) Emotional Affairs, Secret Texts, and Sneaky DMs 2026-06-18 · 57m
E264: What Women Really Think About... Part 3 2026-06-11 · 65m
E263: How to Have More Fun in Your Relationship 2026-06-04 · 57m
E262: The Sex Personality Quiz Every Couple Needs (And What Your Type Says About You) 2026-05-28 · 68m
E261: ED, PE & Everything In Between: Your Performance Problems Solved (Part 2) 2026-05-21 · 59m
E260: How To Orgasm Like A Man: Breaking The Blocks That Keep Women Stuck 2026-05-14 · 65m
E259: Sex and Intimacy After Kids: What Actually Works (From Parents Who've Figured It Out) 2026-05-07 · 64m
E258: Weed, Alcohol, and Sex: What's Actually Happening to Your Body and Desire 2026-04-30 · 65m
E257: Am I The Asshole? Oversharing, Snoring, and Body Shaming 2026-04-24 · 64m
E256: Doggy Style: Tips, Tricks, and Techniques for Maximum Pleasure 2026-04-16 · 62m
E255: The Sexiest Thing You're Not Doing in Bed…Mutual Masturbation 2026-04-09 · 43m
E254: Couples Coaching: Why Resentment Is Killing Your Sex Life 2026-04-02 · 54m
E253: Ask A Sex Therapist: dry spells, sex pillows, and morning sex 2026-03-26 · 67m
E252: Don’t Give Your Kids “The Talk” (do this instead) 2026-03-19 · 52m
E251: What’s Your Desire Type? Our NEW Framework for Understanding What You and Your Partner Really Want 2026-03-12 · 66m
E250: What Do Men Really Think About…? Part 4 (Heated Rivalry, mental load + areolas) 2026-03-05 · 63m
E249: Help! I can’t orgasm with my partner. What do I do? 2026-02-26 · 48m
E248: How to Talk About Sex With Your Partner (Without Making It Weird) 2026-02-19 · 56m
E247: Our Recent Foreplay Discoveries (and how to explore more) 2026-02-12 · 53m
E246: How To Stay Connected When The World Feels Like It’s Burning 2026-02-05 · 63m
E245: What It’s Really Like to Start TRT: Xander’s Testosterone Journey 2026-01-29 · 63m
E244: How To Schedule Sex (our hot take) 2026-01-22 · 49m
E243: Your Biggest Marriage Regrets (And How To Prevent Them) 2026-01-15 · 60m
E242: Penis Performance Problems: What’s Really Going On (And What To Do About It) 2026-01-08 · 64m
E241: Sex Fails: Car Hookups, Clap Lights, and Cowgirl Concussions 2026-01-01 · 35m
E240: The Body Confidence Episode - How To Feel Good In Your Skin During Sex 2025-12-23 · 71m
E239: Breaking Down A Real-Life Text Fight (pt. 3) 2025-12-18 · 69m
E238: Ask a Sex Therapist: Cycle Libido, Rough Sex & How to Sync Up Your O’s 2025-12-11 · 65m
E237: The Real Reason You’re Not Having More Sex 2025-12-04 · 61m
E236: Sex with Other People…Around: Our Holiday Do’s and Don’ts 2025-11-27 · 47m
E235: How Your Phone Is Secretly Sabotaging Your Connection (and what to do about it) 2025-11-20 · 56m
E234: Tie Breakers: Passwords, Period Sex, and Passenger Princesses (We’re Settling It Once and for All) 2025-11-13 · 62m
E233: Our Most Viral Tips (That Actually Changed People’s Sex Lives) 2025-11-06 · 58m
E232: Trick or Treat: The Bedroom Edition 2025-10-30 · 64m
E231: When Life Gets Heavy (A Personal Update) 2025-10-23 · 78m
E230 How to Actually Enjoy Oral Sex (Without Overthinking It) 2025-10-16 · 62m
E229: Ask A Sex Therapist: Swallowing, Fetishes, + Exes 2025-10-09 · 66m
E228: Breaking Down A Real-Life Text Fight (pt 2.) 2025-10-02 · 66m
E227: Initiation: What You’re Getting Wrong And How To Get It Right 2025-09-25 · 61m
E226: Foreplay Frustrations: How to Get More (and Better) Foreplay 2025-09-18 · 65m
E225: The Truth About Sex and Aging: Menopause, Erectile Dysfunction, and Libido 2025-09-11 · 64m
E224: The Beginner’s Guide to Sex Toys & Tools 2025-09-04 · 65m
E223: Sex After Baby: Postpartum Sex, Intimacy & Desire 2025-08-28 · 66m
E222: The AI Girlfriend: How to Protect Your Relationship from Artificial Intimacy 2025-08-21 · 70m
E221: How to Explore Your Kinks Without Shame (Cuckolding, Pegging, Breeding, and more) 2025-08-14 · 69m
E220: A Partner’s Guide To The Female Orgasm 2025-08-07 · 59m
E219: The Truth About Female Orgasm: Your Q’s Answered! 2025-07-31 · 64m
E218 Got the Ick? Why It Happens in Relationships + What to Do About It pt. 2 2025-07-24 · 63m
E217: Got the Ick? Why It Happens in Relationships + What to Do About It 2025-07-17 · 66m
E216: The Truth About Being Passive In Bed: And How To Take Control 2025-07-10 · 56m
E215: Mismatched Sex Drive Types: The #1 Reason Couples Struggle With Desire 2025-07-03 · 56m
E214: The Truth About Being Touch-Starved (Even In A Happy Relationship) 2025-06-27 · 55m
E213: What Do Men REALLY Think About…? Part 3 (Doggy Style, Aging, Leg Hair & More!) 2025-06-20 · 66m
E212: Why You Flinch When Your Partner Touches You (And How To Fix It) "The Bristle Reaction” 2025-06-12 · 78m
E211: Ask A Sex Therapist: Penis Pumps, Pegging, + Postpartum Sex 2025-06-05 · 69m
E210: How To Know When Enough Is Enough 2025-05-29 · 67m
E209: Mental Load: The #1 Desire Killer 2025-05-22 · 64m
E208: Stuck In A Relationship Rut? Here’s Your 4-Week Fix 2025-05-15 · 61m
E207 The Foreplay Episode: The 5 Things We’re All Getting Wrong 2025-05-08 · 68m
E206: Butt Stuff 101: Everything You’re Too Afraid To Ask 2025-05-01 · 61m
E205: Couples Coaching Session: How To Ask For More Even If You Don’t Know What You Want 2025-04-24 · 56m
E204: Confessions Of An Overactive Bladder 2025-04-17 · 56m
E203: Is This Cheating? Part 2 2025-04-10 · 69m
E202: Am I being defensive, or am I defending myself? 2025-04-03 · 55m
E201: Couples Coaching Session: They Love Each Other… So Why Does Their Sex Life Feel Stuck? 2025-03-27 · 64m
E200: 200 Episodes Later: Let’s Get Personal! (Ask Us Anything) 2025-03-20 · 75m
E199: Am I The Asshole? Masturbation, Snooping, and Jealousy 2025-03-13 · 62m
E198: Stop Doing THIS If You Want More Sex (Initiation Fixes You Need to Know) 2025-03-06 · 55m
E197: Ask A Sex Therapist - Resentment, Sexual Frustration, And The Death Grip 2025-02-27 · 65m
E196: 90 Prompts to Transform Your Sex Life (We Answer Some Live!) 2025-02-20 · 61m
Giddyup, Cowgirl! Tips, Tricks, & Techniques For Maximum Pleasure 2025-02-13 · 66m
What Your Partner Wishes You’d Stop Doing In The Bedroom Part 2 2025-02-06 · 73m
The Things We Can’t Say In The Comments 2025-01-30 · 69m
“Is This Normal?” Part 4 — Low Desire Husband, Never Had A Fight, & Baby Talk 2025-01-23 · 51m
Breaking Free From Purity Culture And Religious Shame 2025-01-16 · 68m
Am I Being Reasonable Or Ridiculous? 2025-01-09 · 57m
Can We Have A Fresh Start? Or Is It Too Late? 2025-01-02 · 54m
Is Your Ultimatum Going To Work? 2024-12-26 · 47m
Am I The Asshole? The Holiday Edition Part 2 2024-12-19 · 68m
Period Sex, Internal Vs External Processors, & Queer In A Straight Relationship 2024-12-12 · 59m
How To Navigate Porn In Your Relationship 2024-12-05 · 57m
How To Get More Physical Intimacy From Your Partner 2024-11-27 · 58m
How To Get More Emotional Intimacy From Your Partner 2024-11-21 · 55m
“Help! I’m Not Into My Partner’s Fantasy!” 2024-11-14 · 63m
A Brutally Honest Relationship Check-In 2024-11-07 · 65m
Smash Or Pass: We Try The Weirdest Women’s Magazines Sex Tips 2024-10-31 · 53m
All Your Female Orgasm Questions: Answered! 2024-10-24 · 60m
Tie-Breakers: We Solve Your Relationship Standoffs 2024-10-17 · 71m
Why You Should Try Mutual Masturbation And How To Do It 2024-10-10 · 45m
Is This Cheating? 2024-10-03 · 61m
“Should I Put Up With This In The Bedroom?” 2024-09-26 · 66m
Ask Us Anything: Addressing All Of Your Assumptions 2024-09-19 · 62m
I’m Attracted To Someone Else, What Do I Do? 2024-09-12 · 67m
Bring Sex Toys Into Your Bedroom (Without Making It Weird) 2024-09-05 · 65m
Your Funniest Stories About Getting “The Talk” 2024-08-29 · 64m
What Do Women Really Think About ___? Part 2 2024-08-22 · 60m
Is This Your Shit Or Mine? Part 2 2024-08-15 · 72m
Long Distance? How To Keep The Spark Alive 2024-08-08 · 55m
Should We Open Our Relationship? 2024-08-01 · 66m
How To Create More Privacy For Sex 2024-07-25 · 58m
How To Actually Be Vulnerable With Your Partner 2024-07-18 · 56m
Why You Need To Flirt In Your Relationship And How To Do It 2024-07-11 · 55m
Should We Have A Threesome? 2024-07-04 · 59m
“Is This Normal?” Part 3 — More Questions You Never Dared To Ask Out Loud 2024-06-27 · 59m
We’re In Couples Therapy - Ask Us Anything! 2024-06-20 · 69m
These 4 Communication Mistakes Cause Breakups 2024-06-13 · 58m
“Why Do Guys Do This?” - Xander Explains Male Behavior Part 2 2024-06-06 · 58m
Maybe It’s Not Low Libido… 2024-05-30 · 50m
Come on a Double Date with Us! (“Know Ya Boo” Part 2) 2024-05-23 · 58m
What To Do When It’s Been A While… (The Dry Spell Episode) 2024-05-16 · 42m
Am I The Asshole? In-Laws Edition 2024-05-09 · 64m
How To Stop Feeling Resentment In Your Relationship 2024-05-02 · 52m
The Secret Foreplay Technique You Don’t Even Know About 2024-04-25 · 46m
Breaking Down A Text Fight 2024-04-18 · 59m
How To Get Your Partner To Open Up About Sex (Even If They’re Resistant) 2024-04-11 · 53m
Smash Or Pass? We Try The Wildest Sex Tips You’ve Ever Heard (Volume 3) 2024-04-04 · 61m
Partner Having Penis Performance Problems? Here’s What To Do - And What Not To Do 2024-03-28 · 45m
“Help Me See Where My Partner Is Coming From!” (Advice Episode) 2024-03-21 · 63m
Your Sexual Fantasies Revealed 2024-03-14 · 52m
Are You Nagging? Or Is Your Partner Being Childish? 2024-03-07 · 68m
What Your Partner Secretly Wishes You’d Stop Doing In The Bedroom 2024-02-29 · 65m
We’re In Couples Therapy 2024-02-22 · 71m
The Body Confidence Episode - How To Feel Good In Your Skin During Sex 2024-02-15 · 71m
Are You Lazy In Bed? Here’s What Your Partner Says… 2024-02-08 · 66m
How To Get Your Partner To Be More Romantic 2024-02-01 · 78m
What Your Sex Personality Type Says About You In The Bedroom 2024-01-25 · 63m
Xander’s Vasectomy Part 2: Answering Your Questions About Pain, Performance, And Masculinity 2024-01-18 · 63m
Your Funniest Foreplay Fails 2024-01-11 · 50m
Xander Got A Vasectomy! 2024-01-04 · 71m
The Top 10 Pillow Talks Podcast Moments of 2023 2023-12-28 · 57m
Am I The Asshole? The Holiday Edition 2023-12-21 · 62m
Everything You’re Getting Wrong About Intercourse (And How To Get It Right) 2023-12-14 · 64m
Dead Bedrooms Part 2: We Coach Another Couple Through Resuscitating Their Sex Life 2023-12-07 · 77m
Why We Started Making Out Every Night 2023-11-30 · 78m
How Honest Is Too Honest? 2023-11-22 · 76m
The Bristle Reaction, Icky Initiation, And Bad Assumptions: 5 Surprising Lessons From Your Feedback About Our Book 2023-11-16 · 78m
Do You Have Silent Sex? Here’s Why That’s A Problem 2023-11-09 · 49m
Sneaky Ways To Get Your Partner More Involved In Your Relationship 2023-11-02 · 64m
Ask Us Anything: Spilling Our Business Secrets 2023-10-26 · 72m
Queefing, And Farting, And Squirting, Oh My! Bodily Functions In The Bedroom 2023-10-19 · 57m
Am I The Asshole? 2023-10-12 · 62m
Is Your Sex Life Too Boring? 2023-10-05 · 56m
A Parent’s Guide To Making Time For Sex And Intimacy 2023-09-28 · 54m
“Don’t Touch Me Like That”: Confronting Unwanted Touch In Your Relationship 2023-09-21 · 49m
When She Wants It More: Navigating Mismatched Libidos When The Woman Has A Higher Drive 2023-09-14 · 60m
“Why Do Guys Do This?” - Xander Explains Male Behavior 2023-09-07 · 63m
Jealousy In Relationships: Why Do We Get Jealous, And What Do We Do About It? 2023-08-31 · 71m
The Foreplay Episode: The 5 Things We’re All Getting Wrong 2023-08-24 · 64m
So You Think You Know Us? Answering Your Assumptions! 2023-08-17 · 57m
What Do I Do When My Partner Is Always On Their Phone? 2023-08-10 · 73m
Grief And Sex: Loving Each Other Through A Loss 2023-08-03 · 59m
Can We Come Back From This? Part 2: Even More Relationship Make Or Break Moments 2023-07-27 · 63m
Bump And Grind: Sex During Pregnancy 2023-07-20 · 54m
Creating A Shortcut To Intimacy With Compliments 2023-07-13 · 58m
What To Do When Your Partner Doesn’t Want To Talk About Sex 2023-07-06 · 62m
Unzipped And Unfiltered: Your Funniest Sex Fails 2023-06-29 · 41m
This ONE Thing Is Secretly Affecting Your ENTIRE Relationship 2023-06-22 · 58m
“Help! I’ve Been Faking Orgasms So Long I Don’t Know How To Stop!” 2023-06-15 · 49m
Ask Each Other Anything: Celebrating Our Queer Community With A Q&A 2023-06-08 · 41m
Exposing Our Biggest Relationship Frustrations With Enneagram Expert Tracy O’Malley 2023-06-01 · 90m
“Is This Normal?” 2.0 — More Questions You Never Dared To Ask Out Loud 2023-05-25 · 69m
An Exclusive Sneak Peek: Chapter One Of Sex Talks 2023-05-18 · 55m
What Do Women Really Think About…? (Masturbation, Butt Stuff, Penis Size, And More!) 2023-05-11 · 71m
Smash Or Pass? We Try The Wildest Sex Tips You’ve Ever Heard (Intercourse Edition) 2023-05-04 · 68m
Is Gaming Hurting Your Relationship? Part 1 Of The “I Love You But I Don’t Like You” Series 2023-04-27 · 70m
Our 100th Episode Extravaganza: The Ultimate Round of “Know Ya Boo” 2023-04-20 · 69m
The Bristle Reaction: What It Is, How It Happens, And What You Can Do To Fix It 2023-04-13 · 68m
Dead Bedrooms: We Coach One Couple Through Resuscitating Their Sex Life 2023-04-06 · 73m
Smash Or Pass? We Try The Wildest Sex Tips You’ve Ever Heard (Foreplay Edition) 2023-03-30 · 66m
Things That Go Bump (Or Bang) In the Night 2023-03-23 · 51m
Mental Load Part 2: Conversations About Perfectionism, Gender Roles, And Finding Balance With Your Partner 2023-03-16 · 70m
The “Start Here” Episode - Allow Us To Reintroduce Ourselves 2023-03-09 · 59m
Would You Rather? 2023-03-02 · 53m
The Brutally Honest Truth About Our New York Times Best Selling Book 2023-02-23 · 97m
“Is This Normal?” 15 Questions You Never Dared To Ask Out Loud 2023-02-16 · 57m
Why Missionary Is (Secretly) Our Favorite Position 2023-02-09 · 63m
How To Get The Intimacy You’ve Always Craved 2023-02-02 · 59m
How To Decide If You Should Have Kids Or Not. And Are We Still Child Free By Choice? 2023-01-26 · 75m
Sex Talks: Sharing All The Secrets Behind Writing Our First Book 2023-01-19 · 81m
Ask Us Anything Part 4: This Time It’s Personal 2023-01-12 · 69m
Make 2023 The Year You Finally Feel Sexy 2023-01-05 · 71m
Top 10 Podcast Moments of 2022 2022-12-29 · 49m
How To Fight Fair In A Relationship: Breaking Down A Listener Argument 2022-12-22 · 67m
The 15 Lessons That Keep Us Saying “I Do” After 15 Years 2022-12-15 · 71m
Ho Ho Help! How To Survive Holiday Stress 2022-12-08 · 86m
Be A Man And Talk About Your Feelings 2022-12-01 · 77m
Sex Confessions: The Good, The Bad, And The WTF 2022-11-23 · 53m
Initiation: What You And Your Partner Are Doing Wrong - And How To Get It Right 2022-11-17 · 65m
Everything You Ever Wanted To Know About Orgasms 2022-11-10 · 60m
How Much Do You Really Want It? The Sex Drive Episode 2022-11-03 · 55m
Am I Being Unreasonable? 2022-10-27 · 59m
Are We…Growing Apart? 2022-10-20 · 53m
Do You Ever “Owe” Sex To Your Partner? 2022-10-13 · 56m
The Lowdown On Painful Sex 2022-10-06 · 45m
Ask Us Anything Part 3: Extra Spicy Edition 2022-09-29 · 53m
How To Keep Stress Low And Pleasure High When You’re Trying To Conceive 2022-09-22 · 59m
What Do Men REALLY Think About… Part Two! (Lingerie, Boobs, Money, Queefing, and More!) 2022-09-15 · 63m
The Ultimate Butt Stuff Episode 2022-09-09 · 51m
Hot Takes: How We REALLY Feel About Your Most Requested Topics 2022-09-01 · 63m
The True Story Of How We Built A Sex Therapy Business 2022-08-25 · 65m
How To Overcome Sexual Shame With Our 7-Step Process 2022-08-18 · 56m
Are You Roommates or Romantic Partners? 2022-08-11 · 57m
Does Your Partner Care Enough About YOUR Pleasure? 2022-08-04 · 63m
The Truth About Money and Relationships 2022-07-28 · 58m
Putting The O Back In Mom: Reigniting Your Sex Life After Kids 2022-07-21 · 45m
Help! My Partner Hates Self-Improvement! 2022-07-14 · 55m
Roleplaying 101: Ditch The Awkwardness And Find Your Confidence 2022-07-07 · 49m
The Sex Act You Should Be Doing - But Probably Aren’t 2022-06-30 · 49m
Is This Your Shit Or Mine? 2022-06-23 · 52m
What Do Men REALLY Think About… ? (Vulvas, Emotional Intimacy, And More!) 2022-06-16 · 44m
The 69 Episode 2022-06-09 · 49m
Ask Us Anything Part 2: MORE Of Your Burning Questions, Answered 2022-06-02 · 54m
How To Spice It Up In the Bedroom: Exploring Kink For Beginners 2022-05-26 · 56m
How To Get Your Man To Take Control In The Bedroom 2022-05-19 · 54m
The Art of Flirting (In a Long Term Relationship) 2022-05-12 · 54m
I Don’t Know How To Say This, But... 2022-05-05 · 48m
The Truth About Squirting (And Why Men Are Obsessed With It) 2022-04-28 · 50m
How To Get Out Of (And Prevent) Dry Spells 2022-04-21 · 50m
What Penis Performance Problems REALLY Mean 2022-04-14 · 57m
The Hygiene Episode: What To Do If Your Partner Isn’t Taking Care Of Themselves 2022-04-07 · 40m
Busting – And Confirming! – The Wildest Sex Myths 2022-03-31 · 47m
How To Get Your Partner To Open Up 2022-03-24 · 60m
How To STOP Getting Distracted During Sex! 2022-03-17 · 52m
Are You Sexually Compatible? 2022-03-10 · 61m
The Ask Us Anything Episode: All Your Burning Questions, Answered! 2022-03-03 · 54m
When Your Partner Wants Sex But You Don’t 2022-02-24 · 62m
If You Had To Ask, Does It Even Count? 2022-02-17 · 54m
You Want Connection, Your Partner Wants Sex. Who Comes First? 2022-02-10 · 46m
The Truth About Why We’re Child-Free 2022-02-03 · 71m
Can We Come Back From This? 2022-01-27 · 65m
Fine, I’ll Just Do It Myself: The Danger of Weaponized Incompetence 2022-01-20 · 80m
I Want You To Want Me 2022-01-13 · 62m
The Episode We Almost Didn’t Release 2022-01-06 · 56m
5 Ways To Make 2022 Your Most Intimate AND Nasty Year Ever 2021-12-30 · 47m
Should We Open Our Relationship? 2021-12-23 · 51m
Sex With Other People...Around 2021-12-16 · 50m
Anxious? Avoidant? What Your Attachment Style Says About You (And Your Relationship) 2021-12-09 · 54m
So Your Partner Told You Their Fantasy... And You're Not Into It 2021-12-02 · 36m
Your In-Law Holiday Survival Guide 2021-11-24 · 55m
Are You Good In Bed? 2021-11-18 · 50m
Are You Too Needy? 2021-11-11 · 44m
Butt Stuff: The Sequel 2021-11-04 · 43m
Butt Stuff! 2021-10-28 · 51m
How To Not Pass Sexual Shame Onto Your Kids 2021-10-21 · 57m
Cowgirls, Doggies, and ______ Oh My! 2021-10-14 · 44m
Should We Break Up? 2021-10-07 · 50m
How To Have Amazing Sex With A Brand New Partner 2021-09-30 · 59m
How To Get That New Relationship Energy Back 2021-09-23 · 53m
How To Allow Yourself To Receive In The Bedroom 2021-09-16 · 48m
No, Your Partner Didn't Make You Feel That Way - Your Feelings Are Your Responsibility 2021-09-09 · 53m
The Secret To Feeling More Pleasure In The Bedroom 2021-09-02 · 48m
How To Navigate Different Political, Social, And Religious Beliefs In Dating And Relationships 2021-08-26 · 54m
How To Handle Rejection When Your Partner Says No To Sex 2021-08-19 · 55m
How To Let Your Partner Love Your Body - Even If You Don't 2021-08-12 · 50m
How Vanessa Turned Her Orgasm Struggles Into A Sex Therapy Business! 2021-08-05 · 63m
Communication Breakdowns: We Coach Real Couples Through Their Worst Fights So You Can Get Better At Yours 2021-07-29 · 47m
How Often Is Everyone REALLY Having Sex? And What's Healthy For Your Relationship? 2021-07-22 · 53m
Has Purity Culture Harmed Your Sex Life? How To Overcome Religious Shame 2021-07-15 · 60m
What Makes a Great Kiss? And What to Do if You Don’t Like the Way Your Partner Kisses 2021-07-08 · 64m
This Is Why Your partner Won't Work On Your Relationship With You - And How To Finally Get Them To! 2021-07-01 · 56m
How to “Let Go” During Sex 2021-06-24 · 51m
Mental Load: What It Is and How to Stop It from Destroying Your Relationship 2021-06-17 · 68m
Should Sex Happen Naturally? 2021-06-10 · 43m
Can You Actually Solve Problems In Your Relationship? 2021-06-10 · 54m
The Secret To Hot Sex? Talking About It! 2021-06-10 · 39m
Welcome to the Pillow Talks Podcast with Vanessa + Xander 2021-05-25 · 4m
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