What Dating Apps Miss About Attraction | Paul Eastwick

Welcome to Behavioral Groups, the podcast that explores why we do what we do and how understanding can help us make better choices in work, life, and everything in between. I'm Kurt Nelson. Uh-oh, everything in between. I like that. Okay, I'm Tim Hulyan.

And today's episode tackles one of the most common and confident beliefs that we have and that we all carry around with us when it comes to romantic relationships. And then we're going to quietly dismantle that as well. And that belief is I know what I want in a partner. But what's wrong with that?

Tim, come on. I mean, we all have lists, we have our preferences, we have deal breakers, we have stories about our type, and most people, including me, I I think I'm talking about myself here, are are very sure that those are the things that will guide us to who we fall for, or in my case, who I already fell for, right? It's like, boom, it's gonna hit me. It's this lightning strike and dang, that's the person.

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