The expectations on men

Hogging seats on a crowded train, not saying excuse me, watching videos on your phone with no headphones in. Sometimes it feels like we don't know how to act anymore. What we have been seeing, increasingly, is people breaking rules. Why should I play by the rules if nobody else is going to do that for me? This week on Explain It to Me, how to mind your manners.

New episodes Sundays wherever you get your podcasts. Most of the discourse about American men is focused on what's wrong with them. Why are they lonely? Why are they falling behind? Why are they retreating into the manosphere?

But those conversations don't tell us much about the subjective experience of being a man. today. They don't tell us what it's like to grow up absorbing all of these conflicting ideas about what a man is supposed to be and then realizing that that's not you. Or it is you and it's still not enough. Any discussion about the masculinity crisis, regardless of where you land in that debate.

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