What to Stop Doing to Create a Life You Love with Sahil Bloom

Hey there, welcome to the Amy Porterfield Show. You need to recognize a terrifying reality that complaining, blaming, pointing fingers, none of those things get you anywhere worth going. Because the terrifying reality is that you are in control of everything. It is all on you. Nobody is coming to save you.

But the one thing that you can count on is that you are entirely capable of climbing back all on your own. You're entirely capable of squeezing every single thing you want out of life, of doing all of the hard things, of figuring it out, of meeting your responsibilities with energy and enthusiasm. You are always at the wheel in your own life and it's your responsibility to just never let go. When Hobie and I started couples counseling, we constantly had these conversations around the fact that I worked a lot and he was retired.

And that's a really weird dynamic in a relationship. And so a lot of the times I'd be working way more than he wanted me to work. And I would say things like, you know, we want nice things. We're building this beautiful home and we have a lifestyle that we've created and I have to work in order for that lifestyle to work.

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